I'm going there

Relationships
Do you believe in compatiblity, astrology or do you just dive in & go for it?
Don't compare yourself to anyone's  or any body's  relationship.  Ever relationship is different. What can look like the most happiest family or couple can be real or not happy at all.
People have to grow on each other or you can have instant connection, attraction, whether physically or sexually. 
Do you go in a relationship after your relationship started as casual sex?  Don't complicate shit! We all know once u commit to being sex buddies & try something different, it can fuck it up or become something special. (it's a fk up..ijs)
If you been in a drunken love... that right there is fkn crazy, exciting, but fkn scary sober 😂😂😂
(Not that I ever done it 😉)
Go with the flow..you can have a meaningful & long lasting relationship with anyone that you desire, But you BOTH have to be on the same page at all times! Even including how you raise children, do you want children?

⚠ ⚠ Get all that preliminaries out the way before proceeding ⚠ ⚠

Women if you see red flag ⛳ in the beginning..it is a RED FKN FLAG...DO NOT PROCEED WITHOUT YA GUARDS UP.
If a man lays it out there, it's real. Don't think you can change them now or later.
Maintaining is key. How would you keep the relationship vibrant, healthy, the way it was in the beginning, is this a relationship... blah..blah..blah
Stop trying to guess & ask the person. Never speculate & most important..NEVER EVER blame yourself.
Women, we are Queens and never take the crown off unless YOU take it off! NEVER EVER let anyone belittle you. Don't make excuses or keep  allowing people to tell you about your insecurities because we all have those. If you know you have self-esteem issues, BUILD YOURSELF 2 THE HIGHEST BECAUSE YES, YOU ARE ALL THAT & MORE.
What we have between our legs is a POWERFUL & DEADLY WEAPON 💪Use it wisely 👌

I was told so much but that still won't work or make me do freaky things unless I want. You will not force me into any situation unless I allow it. I was told I am and maybe I will be a old hagged, but no I won't be dried up 😂😂
I am different & I cannot train or tell anyone what to do in relationships. I support people and try not to judge, but I do ask, why do you allow or put up with it, but I know how love makes you do crazy things. My intentions are different, my confidence is too high, I am either 2 aggressive or not aggressive enough.. Relationship is work and keep self-satisfaction is necessary to have first. I never had to bow down and when a man does tell me about myself, I am turned on because if you telling me about who I really am, you are the man because I am not easy to figure out by no means, but I think I can play many roles and not even give up a nibble & I survives without you or with you, but all of this is a choice.
You're not Ike and I damn sure am not Tina, but I will role play if you try to make me eat the cake (NO PHYSICAL ABUSE, I DON'T PLAY THAT) 👊👊 But who am I? #JusWhoIM
You are powerful as humanly possible.
***You Never know what is going on behind closed doors***