Stop Praying of Our Children

Stop Praying for Our Children...
I'm tired of manipulation of young children. Grown men
& Grown Women..
Missing Children...
Enticing & Advertisement & not knowing whose behind
all these secretive electronic devices.
Carbon Copying trying be notice & when I watch the
news a child is missing because they lacking love or
attention?
It's manipulation because I child body may mature but
they brain is slow in process. Common sense they
may never gain, but where are the parents? Oh on the
phone posing & upload pictures on the same site as
they children & not paying attention.
As parents we have the right to protect and invade
especially in this day & age...Look over your children.
Put down these devices & take notice of what your
child is doing. Make it MANDATORY to take a hour or
two & spend quality time w/o any devices. Talk to your
loved ones before they use as a token.

Beauty of Writing

The Beauty of Writing..................

WOW, so I know I just pop up and don't blog for months, but I always make mental notes or pull out a pen, paper and start writing. I take pictures of my journeys and accomplishments. I haven't hung around the same people or done,the things I use to do. I want to see things in a different view and different atmosphere. 
I have lost many friends along my journey. Just when you think you have no more tears left something and someone you love is gone. Each death is a different feeling, a different loss.
Writing is where I can express myself, things I want to scream out on social media, but some things are not meant for every place circulating in space.  People may not agree and have the right and I am not looking for justification, but I will always be a voice, I didn't study Humanitarian for no reason. This is why I have a blog. My blog is used to say what the fuck I want to say and how I want to say it, without sugar-coating shit.
Now, What makes are brain tick, what makes us do the things we do? There will never be a straight answer or conclusion, theories and IDC how many studies that been conducted. We do everything for reasons.
I have gone to particular places for particular reasons and trying to determine if environmental factors play part in our behavior or play part of what makes us react the way we do.  OF COURSE, it doesn't take a Scientist to figure it out. LOL.
I will always determine a cause by the way people treat me...whether it is the texture of my hair or reflection of skin tone (HELL NO, I am NOT going there on BLM), but I look more so comparing; regions, cultures, religion, environments, and just people in general. There is always going to be a difference and to those who have never explore or wander will forever be lost.
I am so City, so East Coast, and sometimes downright hood! So to visit Midwest was nerve-racking, but curious. I always hear that I am such a people person, where sometimes I cannot stand being around people but I think the person that says that, sees deeper in me, where if I am not around people, I feel a lack of sensation. People have always just came up to me and just start talking. I treat people accordingly. If you act like you want no bother, same. If you act ignorant, I'm going to give you my ass to kiss. If you act like you did not see me, I clearly see you and twist up my lips. Don't let me catch you taking a peek because those twisted lips can turn to a quick fake ass smile in a heartbeat.
I started back going on dates and I been known that single life is for me so talking to me about relationship and love is not one of my biggest topic. I try things and if I don't like it, I don't try it again...
Ok, I am lying. I don't mean to try it again, but I have just had to see if it had the same affect/effect.
Writing is a stress reliever, poetry, eye-opener,analyzing, thrilling, and interesting. I have not read a good book since I got sick of reading during college. I have wrote books that I have still not published and it will forever be an artifact. So when that day comes and goes, I know my family will find writings and read how I truly felt and my heart is always aiming for good intentions, regardless how rude I can be.
Remember to live like it is your last day and do it your way. Stop trying please everyone except for you. Just do u! Believe in something and do the unbelievable, my only difference is I pray several times a day and I thank God for forgiveness.

**This writing was done last year. I am just getting a chance to prepare & share**

I dedicate this to my-close friends that I consider family; May you continue to rest well my beauties; Dana Cam, John, &  Liv. 💔💔💔💔

Rip to Great Hip Hop Legend

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I'm going there

Relationships
Do you believe in compatiblity, astrology or do you just dive in & go for it?
Don't compare yourself to anyone's  or any body's  relationship.  Ever relationship is different. What can look like the most happiest family or couple can be real or not happy at all.
People have to grow on each other or you can have instant connection, attraction, whether physically or sexually. 
Do you go in a relationship after your relationship started as casual sex?  Don't complicate shit! We all know once u commit to being sex buddies & try something different, it can fuck it up or become something special. (it's a fk up..ijs)
If you been in a drunken love... that right there is fkn crazy, exciting, but fkn scary sober 😂😂😂
(Not that I ever done it 😉)
Go with the flow..you can have a meaningful & long lasting relationship with anyone that you desire, But you BOTH have to be on the same page at all times! Even including how you raise children, do you want children?

⚠ ⚠ Get all that preliminaries out the way before proceeding ⚠ ⚠

Women if you see red flag ⛳ in the beginning..it is a RED FKN FLAG...DO NOT PROCEED WITHOUT YA GUARDS UP.
If a man lays it out there, it's real. Don't think you can change them now or later.
Maintaining is key. How would you keep the relationship vibrant, healthy, the way it was in the beginning, is this a relationship... blah..blah..blah
Stop trying to guess & ask the person. Never speculate & most important..NEVER EVER blame yourself.
Women, we are Queens and never take the crown off unless YOU take it off! NEVER EVER let anyone belittle you. Don't make excuses or keep  allowing people to tell you about your insecurities because we all have those. If you know you have self-esteem issues, BUILD YOURSELF 2 THE HIGHEST BECAUSE YES, YOU ARE ALL THAT & MORE.
What we have between our legs is a POWERFUL & DEADLY WEAPON 💪Use it wisely 👌

I was told so much but that still won't work or make me do freaky things unless I want. You will not force me into any situation unless I allow it. I was told I am and maybe I will be a old hagged, but no I won't be dried up 😂😂
I am different & I cannot train or tell anyone what to do in relationships. I support people and try not to judge, but I do ask, why do you allow or put up with it, but I know how love makes you do crazy things. My intentions are different, my confidence is too high, I am either 2 aggressive or not aggressive enough.. Relationship is work and keep self-satisfaction is necessary to have first. I never had to bow down and when a man does tell me about myself, I am turned on because if you telling me about who I really am, you are the man because I am not easy to figure out by no means, but I think I can play many roles and not even give up a nibble & I survives without you or with you, but all of this is a choice.
You're not Ike and I damn sure am not Tina, but I will role play if you try to make me eat the cake (NO PHYSICAL ABUSE, I DON'T PLAY THAT) 👊👊 But who am I? #JusWhoIM
You are powerful as humanly possible.
***You Never know what is going on behind closed doors***

My Style

I tried love a couple times. I believe that it is only one true love.  But can you fall in love many times?
How many different type of love is it? How do you know it is true, do you believe they are your soulmate, do you believe in soulmates?
Love is painful. I felt heartbreak & u can literally feel the pain tugging at your heart. I love pain, but not that kind of pain. I like that it feel so damn good type of pain.
That I love you so much ..
Obsessive stalking type of love... I had that.. Not my style
Don't leave this House insecure I'm whip your ass when we get alone type of love.. Not my style
Friends w/ benefits fall in love just dangerous....  I had that. Not my style..
Let's try to make it work or stay together for the kids... Fk No.. I guess I don't deserve happiness.
U gonna be alone & nobody is going to love you like me... ) 😂😂 Not worth a response...

Shit, jumping on a flight, shopping until I drop, romance for one day one night, no explanations, no disrespect, no sexual touching. I love that. Jewels make me have erection orgasm so what kind of love is your style?
✌ Peace, Love,❤ & Happiness 😊 #Juswhoim
#NoJudgementZone

Get Mad

I didn't care about who was becoming President. I worked and still work in politics. I just started voting and never gave two shits about voting. My first vote was taken to prove my point and I made $50 because I still say its rigged.
When its time for Democrat or Republican they will be place accordingly. Our votes count, I laugh. People I have admit that I don't partake. I been ridiculed and I respect their reasonings. The fight for voting as far as being a woman and especially a woman with a carmel twist. I don't like to view things as color or everything is racist, even though the situation is possible when it comes to race.  I unfortunately, dealt with racial intend personally and if you read my blogs, I have shared my story.  I wasn't raised to see color and we all have prejudices and biases.
But I also seen people who resemble me, kill their own breed, their own neighbors, family, so no I DON'T DO OR DISCUSS politics or very sensitive topics, like LGBT or injustice in our judicial system.
NOT in MY Blog!

Look elsewhere and know that everyone has a right to be what they want, even if others feel it is wrong.  It took me time to accept that the world, human dignity, and human rights will continue to evolve. But I have enough respect for all that have had the courage to fight and speak out on what they feel, believe, and want.  I respect those fighting in the military, I respect those that never been acknowledged for being part of what has caused change, and I respect the right to voice opinions regardless if I do not agree, but I will not debate or belittle others.

This is JUSWHOIM.

My Family or Familia

My blogs are made to express myself. Other people blog for their own interest. I could blog about the stars, politics, the hottest topics, what is trending and what is out, what's I , what to watch, top rated, the hot topics of the day is always on social media, but IDGAF about discussing none of that shit. My blogs are meant to tell and share stories ...
So check it, I probably never told that I come from a close knit family, we try to be individualism but are really collectivism. Shit we been called a cult, we not a cult. Family is family, you help out family, you hold a particular standards, you just follow rules. Well that ancient ways have changed. People come to America and raise children here, you become corrupt and Begin disobeying. You have one half & this is not true. Not even a half holds traditional roles. Once your children or born here or been here for long, they become Americanized. 
What does that mean? ??
They're going be off the chain!! Hahaha.
But like most families, there will be those that are bare rathetness, seem ghetto, with a touch of class {as needed} because you will go on adventures, which includes street fights, street life, drugs and undercover thugs, frauds and all.  Everyone knows their roles. But like I always say.. What you see is not what you get. We have the most beautiful colorful mix of so many styles and cultures in my family. We are the most prettiest, beautiful, complicated, loving thugs.
Some of us have talked about capturing shit that goes down because when you tell a story, people mouths just drop open and laughter follows and I always hear, you need to write a book. Any time I can go to work and include my bosses and supervisors, you know it has to have been something they never experienced or ever heard of.   Anytime they can just seat and enjoy one of my real life stories I probably shared 3 years later and still reminisce, share, and compare which one is their favorites is hilarious to me.
But anyways...
If we still want to make it reality, especially now because reality TV is in. But, we won't need anything edited, scripted, Just raw.. but that's also another reason why we haven't proceed because some shit you still can't do on tv.  You would have to go in a special edition site to view our shenigans. CTFU!!
Idk who said fighting is a solution, but sometimes it is necessary even if our elders look down on us or we feel that we disgrace the family, but from what I was told my grandmother, little tiny Indian, Latino decendand fought when she got anger.  So is it genetics or just taught?? Well some of us have lot more spice than most.
We have enough women and same equal amount of males in my family.  We take in people that have had a hard life & treat them like they are blood.  We have annual family reunions in different states for almost 60 years or more.   No matter what we go through, we pull it back together and become one. We argue and fight literally among one another, but if one is lost, all they need to do is reach out and we pull them back up.
I wouldn't trade my family for shit because we have what lot of people are missing. LOVE
You cannot come to a family gathering and enter the rooms w/o  first kissing the elders and kissing everyone in the room or greet properly and you must leave the same way. No matter how much you smoked or drank. We don't leave w/o saying "I love you".
#FamilyValues