My blogs are made to express myself. Other people blog for their own interest. I could blog about the stars, politics, the hottest topics, what is trending and what is out, what's I , what to watch, top rated, the hot topics of the day is always on social media, but IDGAF about discussing none of that shit. My blogs are meant to tell and share stories ...
So check it, I probably never told that I come from a close knit family, we try to be individualism but are really collectivism. Shit we been called a cult, we not a cult. Family is family, you help out family, you hold a particular standards, you just follow rules. Well that ancient ways have changed. People come to America and raise children here, you become corrupt and Begin disobeying. You have one half & this is not true. Not even a half holds traditional roles. Once your children or born here or been here for long, they become Americanized.
What does that mean? ??
They're going be off the chain!! Hahaha.
But like most families, there will be those that are bare rathetness, seem ghetto, with a touch of class {as needed} because you will go on adventures, which includes street fights, street life, drugs and undercover thugs, frauds and all. Everyone knows their roles. But like I always say.. What you see is not what you get. We have the most beautiful colorful mix of so many styles and cultures in my family. We are the most prettiest, beautiful, complicated, loving thugs.
Some of us have talked about capturing shit that goes down because when you tell a story, people mouths just drop open and laughter follows and I always hear, you need to write a book. Any time I can go to work and include my bosses and supervisors, you know it has to have been something they never experienced or ever heard of. Anytime they can just seat and enjoy one of my real life stories I probably shared 3 years later and still reminisce, share, and compare which one is their favorites is hilarious to me.
But anyways...
If we still want to make it reality, especially now because reality TV is in. But, we won't need anything edited, scripted, Just raw.. but that's also another reason why we haven't proceed because some shit you still can't do on tv. You would have to go in a special edition site to view our shenigans. CTFU!!
Idk who said fighting is a solution, but sometimes it is necessary even if our elders look down on us or we feel that we disgrace the family, but from what I was told my grandmother, little tiny Indian, Latino decendand fought when she got anger. So is it genetics or just taught?? Well some of us have lot more spice than most.
We have enough women and same equal amount of males in my family. We take in people that have had a hard life & treat them like they are blood. We have annual family reunions in different states for almost 60 years or more. No matter what we go through, we pull it back together and become one. We argue and fight literally among one another, but if one is lost, all they need to do is reach out and we pull them back up.
I wouldn't trade my family for shit because we have what lot of people are missing. LOVE
You cannot come to a family gathering and enter the rooms w/o first kissing the elders and kissing everyone in the room or greet properly and you must leave the same way. No matter how much you smoked or drank. We don't leave w/o saying "I love you".
#FamilyValues
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