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"Let It Go" {Part 2}

It's that time to discuss carrying old baggage.  When you break up with your significant other & I mean "DONE FOR GOOD"...you can't go back just cause you need some because that is still a conflict. When you stop taking phone calls, texts, drive-by, looking at pictures, laying in the bed with tissues, start going back out with your friends you been neglecting & start looking at other potentials, meeting a person & exchange numbers.  That is what I'm talking about~~LET IT GO!!

When you do finally proceed  or attempt to move on, leave that bag at home.. Who said what bag? The bag of spoiled leftovers, the bag with a funky smell, the bag that is holding you back because it so heavy, the bag you don't want to let go or dispose..PLS LET IT GO!!  Your new potential or possible (what I refer to as sponsors) DOES NOT want to hear about your exe.  Everytime your possible sponsor mentions a topic, you want to interrupt & have the nerve to be like, "Oooo, yeah my Exe use to do that, I remember we use to...Blah,Blah,Blah ....now that potential is not hearing a word except their own; which is telling them to end this fast, or should  I still try & fuck them, then get rid of them, nah....Im not feeling this after tonight its over.

Now don't be all surprised even if the date didn't go quite well, you came off like you need an distraction so they may come on pretty straight forward & try to get in those panties or drawals. Hey, two willing parties, fully grown adults can make a decision; in the first 2 minutes when you first meet, you already know where this will lead to. If there is no attraction or chemistry "LET IT GO"..but  the moment you arrive back to his or her place and you invite them in, you invited yourself to take advantage of the situation..Fuck the Exe cause Im sure they probably having sex as you are reading this.  Of course, the person is going to ask you would you like a drink (NO WATER or JUICE) a cocktail, some wine or if they want to speed up the process..."Let's say goodbye too old baggage & to new beginnings".  Of course, you have to tap glasses..Salute' and take that shot straight to the head~ you know what happens next & you can go ahead & blame it on the alcohol~~YEAH RIGHT! Now its on  and it had the nerve to be GOOD!!  DAM...... now you wondering what is going to happen next (women usually dwell over it) by this time some body is rolled over and snoring.

Next DO NOT think this encounter is headed to relationship status...DO NOT start texting the next day, calling, leaving messages because all that means is,  "Yeah, I put it down on them, they want more...it was good, should I hit it again why not". Now they finally text you back & you there mad,...but soon as you see that text or call...the madness disappears FAST! You go through all the petty talk, "what's up, nothing much, what's up with you, chilling same shit different day, WYD (what you doing), chilling, I might go out later, Ooo OK, well call me when you not busy or come back, OK I will, TTYL (talk to you later). Knowing damn well you want to say~~~ Come over I want to fuck & your response IS: I'm OMW (on my way).

PLS DO NOT  get mixed signals or expect more than a bedroom buddy.  this is what we call a "REBOUND".  This is the person that is just taking your mind of your Exe for a little while because if you try to take it more than what it really is.  You will get your feelings hurt once again. I always recommend to just go with the flow & it is what it is.  That's not your man or woman & you just met a week ago.  He or she barely knows each others real name, let alone anything else expect age & BD (Birth Day).

When you start out trying to meet someone new.  Let them know from the start what you are looking for, be precise, & cut to the chase. DO NOT bring that bag with you. DO NOT force the other person into something that doesn't exist.  Find other things to do to keep yourself busy so you will be so consumed that you wont have time to think about you Exe or your Rebound.. if you are still in LOVE with your Exe.  I do not see anything wrong with telling them how you feel or even attempt to reconcile, but if they are adamant and moved on~~ its time for you to take some time & get to know you again after coming out of a relationship, it I not health to jump into another so soon because you will meet many possibles and it wont last because you have not healed from your previous romance. Go head & meet you someone that treats you decent and become friends with benefits if you choose , but if you keep meeting lames on some new game..keep it moving and ~~~**LET IT GO**!!!

{These our based on MY views, My thoughts, & I am not encouraging or discouraging anyone to take what I say in consideration}