I try not to use the word hate or hater because it is a VERY powerful word. We have heard that for awhile now (remind me to look up who was the first person that used the term hater) sometimes it is just envy that can turn into jealousy. I have never been a hater are envious but to a certain extreme I am jealous when it comes to my man!
We as a nation are descendants of American-African I will discuss why I rephrase American-African instead of African-American another day, but I like to see people doing well, especially when it is a minority. I admire and respect a person who has earned success. We have let materialistic things define us and that is not how you should perceive success. You still stay humble and yes, you may have always had taste for the finer things in life or acquired a taste from becoming successful. Go ahead and treat yourself & buy that $200,000 dollar car, that 2.5 million house & all designer made clothes (I hope you don't have to use your children's education funds down the line when things get tight) but I will never hate, but I will congratulate.
I know you know someone who brags or boast about what they have & every time you try to change topics, it ALWAYS seem like they reverse it & we end back on a topic all about them! Take heed<< Watch those kind of associates, acquaintances, friends, and even your own family members because they are watching you more than you know. They act as if they care & may ask you "how's everything going"...keep your answer short & precise because some people you think you know well are the ones who like to tell.
People love to hear your problems or worries, they may "act" like they are naturally concerned about you, but they really do not want to talk about your success or what you been up to because... LET'S not forget..."IT'S REALLY ALL ABOUT THEM". They define themselves "materialistically" and feed off of negativity. But like they say; "Everything that glitters isn't Gold". They seek out the person they see as Competition and when they see you as their opponent, they are really informing you about their ammunition& preparing for battle. They will inform others that "they think" is part of their teams & only tell them the bad things you revealed so they can use it as a form of weapons later (as needed). They brag & boast about their self because you are the only one who will still listen because they've told so many people about their so called "Gold" when it is really just "Gold plated". These are the ones who may act as if they have it all, but really do not. Their life is miserable, lonely, depressing, they seek attention like a "newborn" baby and I AM NOT YOUR MOMMA!
I have never been into competition, {except in elementary} when we had Olympics & spelling bee's (by the way, I won), but I do not compete because WE ALL can accomplish our goals & live out our dreams, with the right people on our team. With determination, positive attitude, faith, desire & focus you will achieve just as they have or even better,
But do not let materialistic things define who you are. You do you & let them do them. You will not have to walk the walk or talk the talk because they will notice a different stride & how you carry yourself with your head held high<< because do not forget; you are a threat to them & they been watching you because they been seen the potential in you. As they say & yes I will repeat this one; "Let your haters be your motivators"***LOVE YOURSELF FIRST NO MATTER WHAT**
**THIS IS A PUBLIC SAFETY ANNOUNCEMENT**
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